The issue of returning to Paganism from Atheism came up in a thread on MysticWicks.com:
I was happiest when I felt a strong spiritual connection, and I generally had a positive outlook, because I felt in control of my life via magic and ritual, and cared for by the Divine.
I first started falling away from it when my husband and I moved in together. (I officially considered myself a pagan at 16, moved out of my parents house at 19, and am currently 25.) It seems so strange, but living with my conservative parents, it was so much easier to do rituals… even if most of my supplies and books were hidden away, I spent every night alone in my room, and had all the privacy I wanted. Not that my husband minds, but I just don’t like the idea of running off to the bedroom (or sending him and the cats to the bedroom, as he has suggested) if I want to do a ritual. I feel timed, and a bit awkward knowing someone is aware of what I’m doing, when I consider it private. (A bit like talking through the bathroom door…)
I’ve spent so much time as a cynical atheist, and defending the (shocking!) idea of not believing in God to a few nosy co-workers, that I almost feel… too stubborn? to go back to believing in a higher power. I feel like it’s conceding or something.
I’m not opposed to the idea of non-theist witchcraft, as there are still some “spiritual” things I believe in (karma, energy, etc.) without believing in God, but believing in magic without a higher power seems almost blasphemous to me. Egotistical, at least. When I would do rituals, I would consider it a prayer or a request, not “controlling” the energy and elements myself… – humangirl
My advice for her, and others, considering returning to paganism:
It took me time to adjustment to practicing rituals while living with my husband and negotiate the space-sharing issues. So I know what that feels like – to feel self-conscious while living with another person, even one who is supportive and understanding of your practices.
There is a bit of pride wrapped up in being Atheist because that involves a level of certitude; it’s a personal certitude that takes the place of faith in one or more deities outside of oneself, and that can require significant pride to maintain. I say this having been an Atheist. It was indeed a humbling experience to first doubt that there is nothing outside of the concrete physical world, and later to believe in something more.
If you are not certain about the existence of any deities, well, then you’re Agnostic. And that’s fine. But if you don’t believe in gods in any way, shape, or form, you can still have other ideas about how the world works. Example: belief in Feng Shui for example doesn’t involve any kind of deity, yet it’s nearly magical the way it functions through the direction and cultivation of Chi.
It’s really going to take some self-reflection for you to find out what you believe. Neither I, nor anyone else, can tell you what to believe. But once you do realize what your belief is, then you just need to come to terms with it. If you are changing your mind, what is there to be embarrassed about? People don’t stop learning or growing, they continue to do so throughout their entire lives.
Would you consider yourself a Theist? Atheist? Monotheist? Polytheist? Agnostic? Have you ever changed from one to the other? How would you advise someone experiencing a crisis of faith (or crisis of lack of faith)?
- Agnosticism & Atheism (radicalatheist.com)
- The connections between atheism and Christianity (geneveith.com)
- What is Neo-Paganism and Wicca? (brighthub.com)
- The definition of atheism (barefootbum.blogspot.com)